Dear friends,
I would like to ask you what you feel about what you do. I mean, I am asking you that are you satisfied with what you have achieved at this juncture. It has always been said that none should feel satisfied otherwise it will hinder one's development. Have you ever felt that people surrounding you always guide you in some way? If not, then look at the things in a different way. Not only the ones who are related to you but also the ones who are not connected to you also play an important role in your life. When some of the close people behave in a particular manner, might that if they are trying to help you, you respond to them in a different way. I mean that sometimes when these people try to help you on something, you don't listen to them or sometimes you do listen, you feel that their opinion is appropriate, but still you never comply.
The way you look at things defines your perspective. It might be that a thing which I term right can be wrong for you. That's your perspective. That doesn't mean that you are wrong. So it might be that you are aware of a bad habit of yours but you never want to get rid of it. This happens in everyone's life. Even in my life. This is due to FREE WILL. Everyone has his own free will. I sometimes behave impulsively, I am aware that this lowers my spirit. I avoid this by feeling good. I don't feel good otherwise. So likewise, each one of us has issues with themselves. What is this FREE WILL? Free will is the desire inside every human being which is free from any of the circumstances which you are facing right now or which you have faced throughout your life. Free will could be anything, any desire. It is necessary that you have one. Because it keeps your journey of life going on. This comes from some things in this life or in any of past lives. This is something which remains unanswered, unaccomplished, may be an unfulfilled dream of some sort. So what we need is that, we must learn to let go the things which we cannot change.
This seems difficult. But not impossible. When you experience that people are not listening to what you say even if it is for their benefit then, remember that they are following their free will. The free will, will take them somewhere in there life. Your help will matter to them only if they want you help them.
Tell me what you think!!!!