Tuesday, July 31, 2012

Decisions

Hello Everyone,


Today let us talk about decisions and life. All of us have gone through different phases, conditions and situations of life. We say that we have gained experience going through these. We sometime say that we are gaining knowledge through life in many ways. We feel that the decisions we take in small or big things of life, are based on life we had experienced and seen in that life till that point. Actually it is the other way round. If you look at your life standing out of the role and if you change perspective, you would find that it is YOU who had chosen to gain these experiences. The life which you are having right now is actually chosen by you and not that it is rendered to you by anyone. If you think its your parents who are responsible for your existence then let me tell you that they are the entrance for you to enter in this world and then things which might have happened with respect to your nurturing and development which you think they have offered to you is actually the other way round. Being a child or what we call it as an 'immature phase' or the phase taken for neuro-cognitive development, you have been fulfilled with what you had asked for. This fulfillment was done by your parents and by many other people with whom you had been with in that phase. If you think closely you would see that it was YOU who had asked for this nurturing. This has happened with everyone of us despite the class, society, sect, religion. In childhood we had cried a lot and smiled and giggled too. We had done this even in sleep during our infancy. Crying and smiling were our most primitive responses denoting need, as in not needed(not anticipated further) or needed(anticipated further). Who has taught us to do that ? All this indicates that we have evolved in the way which we have decided. It is we who have chosen our parents, belongings and other relatives and relations which have help us to fulfill our need and reach our goal. This is why all of us have different parents and in case of siblings each one of the siblings we always get a different treatment and response from each other. You think most of the times that your parents, elders, teachers or any other person who have gained an experience and maturity have told you about going ahead in life, but what if I say that "you had chosen each one of them to add to your experience....." we had followed ourselves right from the beginning of our journey of life. We have taken shelter, we have been pampered by others when we had to move ahead in  life. We already had known about how things would work when we had stepped down from our mother's womb. As the time had passed we have moved ahead understanding, imagining and sculpting our next step. We are here now, came into existence with the knowledge from past lives. We always have had a tendency to return to the roots of evolution, in which we are going to be successful some day. You were alleged to be immature in thoughts, actions and behaviour at some instance in your life. Immature shouldn't mean unreasonable. I feel the immaturity is actually should not be used in such contexts. As each and everyone remain immature even if we have grown old. Acceptance of being mature hinders overall growth, which is then covered up by opportunities which come across in same or in some other life. 


So decisions we take in our lives are taken on our responsibility. We might try to justify them on the basis the experience we have had but even then, these decisions take us ahead on our journey of life as each one of those provide certain velocity to the leading life.


Don't feel guilty or bad about any of your decisions, which you have taken and which you will be taking in the future life, as each one of those are extremely important. So be with yourself and let the inner-self lead you  to everything.


Take care !!

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