Hi in last post our discussions ended on a "suicidal attempt". Suicidal attempts are never to be counted in accidental behaviour.
It is not only that circumstances are responsible for the things to happen. circumstances situations are just like planets revolving around the sun where you are in place of the sun. Situations always take-up your conscious mind. Our mind gets shaped up in the way situations do.
Sub-con. mind is completely related with a person's self-confidence. A successful person always gain great self-confidence and on the other hand a person who always encounter with his BAD PATCH lose his confidence very easily. Any task in which one finds oneself successful, act as an auto-suggestion for the person. Success also invites praise, fame, and something some enthusiasm to the next thing in best way. All these factors suggest that the person can do even more better or at least can repeat the thing of same sort & gain success in it.
So what happens with the person who's in the BAD PATCH? Simple, the person starts feeling that he's a loser sort of guy. This generates a wrong, NEGATIVE suggestion to the sub-con. mind. Moreover he meets a list of persons who also prove him that he was definitely did the wrong or he could have done something else. The sequel continues in future. Sequel of such wrong, misguided, STRONGLY NEGATIVE, opinions of people generate negative auto-suggestions for his sub-con. mind. Continued bombardment of such situations, causes to alter his point of view of looking towards things. He gets used to see only his demerits, failures, rest all negative aspects. This suggests his own sub-con. mind that he's of no use to the society, then slowly the feeling gets stronger to a point that he feels that he's of no use for his own existence.
Due to wrong NEGATIVE auto-suggestions created for the sub-con. mind the person attempts for the obvious thing!
Remember here that it is very important to understand the fact that not everyone who thinks that "I am a loser" commits suicide. I have said earlier that sub-con. mind acts as a SELF-DEFENCE for the person, but it depends upon the SUGGESTIONS given to the Sub-con. mind that a person may or may not kill himself.
Again that doesn't mean that anyone can make any one to kill himself. This is for a simple reason that our sub-con. mind readily accepts POSITIVE suggestions.
I think it is going way long from the subject. You must have seen I have tried to highlight POSITIVE suggestions in this all text. It is for simple reason that sub-con. in its natural behaviour is keen on being positive. It is always looking forward for anyone to encourage it that is actually like giving POSITIVE suggestions, you will agree to this fact.
okay fine Next time we'll discuss more beyond this.
wait for the next post...............!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11
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